Let Your Sexy Side Out

DO YOU EVER TRY TO HIDE PARTS OF YOURSELF SO OTHERS WON’T FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE OR JUDGE YOU?

Are you hiding the sensual, feminine part of yourself because you think you need to look more professional, or be the mom who has it together, or you just don’t have time to spend on your appearance because you have way more important things to do?

Maybe you are afraid of standing out and getting attention, because you’re afraid of what people will think of you, or that they will judge you and talk about you for being sexy, pretty, glamorous…

Or maybe you’re just afraid to be seen?

If we hide our sensual and feminine side to ourselves too much, it becomes harder and harder to let her out. We become more self conscious, or have less of a connection with our body. 

If we stop taking care of ourselves, and don’t invest time and effort into our self care and appearance, we feel less confident in ourselves and our bodies. 

And when we lose our self confidence, we find it harder to put ourselves out there to find love, start or grow a business, move up in our career, find our besties, have a meaningful relationship with our partner, or just feel happy in our life. 

So let your sensual side show! Express yourself and enjoy that connection with your heart and your body.

Here are some of my favorite ways to express and connect with my sensual side!

• Read a sexy novel. 

• Wear a dress that makes you feel feminine and pretty.

• Put on a red lipstick. 

• Wear pretty lingerie under your work or athleisure outfit.

• Smile at a hot stranger. 

• Put on a sexy song and move your body to it.

• Wink at yourself when you walk by a mirror.

• Massage a luxurious body lotion slowly all over your skin.

• And if you really want to bring out your sensual side, do a boudoir or intimate photo shoot! It’s the quickest way I know to get into and express your sensual side, and that feeling will last long after the shoot is over.

What can you commit to doing this week to let your sexy out?

xo,

Melissa